tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post2378245628658580451..comments2024-01-29T03:17:01.512-08:00Comments on South African Photographs: Get over it!SAPhotographs (Joan)http://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-53236218069752075022010-04-14T23:45:36.780-07:002010-04-14T23:45:36.780-07:00Thanks Anna. I am trying to move on myself but I k...Thanks Anna. I am trying to move on myself but I know it is going to take a while but as they say "the strong will survive".SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-33401470763908530042010-04-14T20:41:32.483-07:002010-04-14T20:41:32.483-07:00Joan beautiful post, and you know I was holding an...Joan beautiful post, and you know I was holding and living past in the past, and I found that 'getting over' and looking forward is much more fun. Life is too short not to enjoy it!<br />Anna :)myonlyphotohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07324578791902437827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-52115202104861274912010-04-03T20:37:04.109-07:002010-04-03T20:37:04.109-07:00You are right Tom but it is smetimes not easy with...You are right Tom but it is smetimes not easy with constant reminders around all the time.SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-3210032018152845092010-04-03T08:03:35.426-07:002010-04-03T08:03:35.426-07:00Joan: You don't forget you just accept and let...Joan: You don't forget you just accept and let more things happen in your life.This Is My Blog - fishing guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03826128050970967135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-3760791875826087812010-04-01T22:13:34.952-07:002010-04-01T22:13:34.952-07:00Thanks Michelle. Time is all I have right now and ...Thanks Michelle. Time is all I have right now and I know it WILL get better.SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-47001491326736524422010-04-01T22:04:15.370-07:002010-04-01T22:04:15.370-07:00I don't have any good answers for you because ...I don't have any good answers for you because I know you have had horrible losses. If you ever want to talk..I will listen... Nights do seem to be the most lonely of times I know...Give yourself time...Rambling Woodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15080120317890707767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-74490849022100810482010-04-01T21:33:07.355-07:002010-04-01T21:33:07.355-07:00Thank you Michelle, I can really do with hugs righ...Thank you Michelle, I can really do with hugs right now. I have lost so many of my loved ones over the years and each one is as difficult as the ones before but this was the worst of all because it was so unexpected and someone I care for VERY deeply. I know that with time things will get easier, but what do I do in the meantime? I guess the bottom line is I will manage somehow but the days and SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-22241938048546645442010-04-01T20:53:31.960-07:002010-04-01T20:53:31.960-07:00I am sorry for your loss..give yourself time to gr...I am sorry for your loss..give yourself time to grieve and grieve again in the future.. What you feel is never wrong..as my own personal Dr. Phil (my psychologist) daughter always says...hugs friend....MichelleRambling Woodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15080120317890707767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-23134942199637450402010-04-01T20:48:24.648-07:002010-04-01T20:48:24.648-07:00I am sorry to hear that Michell. These things are ...I am sorry to hear that Michell. These things are never easy and the recent loss of someone extremely important to me whom I love dearly has cost me a lot emotionally. I am trying my best to get over it but it is not easy and I know the felling of loss is something I will never get over. If only it was easier to forget but then the memories of the good times will never fade and will always be in SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-80309570951341693242010-04-01T20:31:45.344-07:002010-04-01T20:31:45.344-07:00I think that we go through stages and then accept ...I think that we go through stages and then accept and at some time have to go through those stages again. Funny you should post this as I am dealing with some family issues and health issues that are along these lines. I tend to get on with it, but allow myself to be angry or to grieve if I need to. I just try hard not to go to the dark side for any length of time. But some losses I don't Rambling Woodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15080120317890707767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-43940600559346289792010-03-30T18:34:39.842-07:002010-03-30T18:34:39.842-07:00How easy it is to forgive Craver but not easy to f...How easy it is to forgive Craver but not easy to forget. Some things in life can just hurt so badly. I have never been able to understand how people can do things to others to cause them pain. Surely these things should not be done in the first place? Then there would be no need to forgive or forget?SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-87722512738293471122010-03-30T18:30:34.732-07:002010-03-30T18:30:34.732-07:00Hello Craig, what a pleassure it is to hear fom yo...Hello Craig, what a pleassure it is to hear fom you again. I have missed you a LOT!! You have to thank Sara for the unblocking. I did it so she does not have to go searching for me again. :) <br /><br />With more time to play, claymations easier with practice. It has got to the point where even I don't know the difference between that and the real ones. LOL!!<br /><br />I am please you got SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-20381786050316572552010-03-30T12:00:35.982-07:002010-03-30T12:00:35.982-07:00What it means and how to "get over it." ...What it means and how to "get over it." That depends.<br /><br />But you ask a good question about forgetting things, so we can move on. Remembrance is what makes forgiveness so precious. It is because a person remembers that the act of forgiving has such great value. I do not take it lightly when I am forgiven for a transgression. That would not be the case if moving on was based Craver Viihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12882284402568264182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-86025848394253572442010-03-30T10:26:09.394-07:002010-03-30T10:26:09.394-07:00Hi J!
First Thanks for un-blocking me from you si...Hi J!<br /><br />First Thanks for un-blocking me from you site!<br /><br />Second, That third photo down is one of your best claymation works to date!<br /><br />Third, At first I was upset that you blocked me but I got over it! LOL<br /><br />Your biggest Fan,<br />CraigCraig Glennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10648043386935477033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-27727685931389132812010-03-29T21:48:56.503-07:002010-03-29T21:48:56.503-07:00Some things in life are easy to accept, especially...Some things in life are easy to accept, especially when we know the reasons. I think the most unacceptable are lies, deceit and people who hurt and use people for their own ends.SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-65121354825525426312010-03-29T21:11:55.728-07:002010-03-29T21:11:55.728-07:00Thanks Becky. There are some things in life which ...Thanks Becky. There are some things in life which are easier / harder to handle than others. Some of us cope easier than others and some of us can push things aside easier. But what do you do while 'handling' it? Some of us try to take a vacation and others try to block our minds, but the constant reminders of situation is always there. Someone said that we cannot feel true pain if we didSAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-36124036006285650212010-03-29T20:06:42.448-07:002010-03-29T20:06:42.448-07:00I'm finding so much truth in most of your comm...I'm finding so much truth in most of your comments. It seems we've all been there a time or two. I really don't have anything to add. I have no wisdom, except know that you gave it your best!<br />B.Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05539402327765556670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-65667847289294262912010-03-29T18:51:05.052-07:002010-03-29T18:51:05.052-07:00I think the memories are so importand Anne. The go...I think the memories are so importand Anne. The good ones live on in our minds and hearts and play over and over like a movie.SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-4975444886689841412010-03-29T10:26:17.458-07:002010-03-29T10:26:17.458-07:00Oh Joan, this is such a difficult one. All I can ...Oh Joan, this is such a difficult one. All I can say is that the pain never goes away, but it does get better. Fortunately we do not only have the pain, but also the wonderful memories, cherish those. (((HUG)))A human kind of humanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12944399986334367708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-83867528979258321932010-03-29T08:03:33.902-07:002010-03-29T08:03:33.902-07:00A great insight and answer there Mary. But how lon...A great insight and answer there Mary. But how long should the healing process take? Do we ever completely heal, or are we like Tony who's memories keep on coming back and are triggered with things in life?SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-79777731045664209852010-03-29T06:33:08.610-07:002010-03-29T06:33:08.610-07:00I think every person has their own way of mourning...I think every person has their own way of mourning or "getting over it". When others say that, they are usually just impatient with your symptoms and how they infringe on them in some way...or they genuinely just want you to be past the bad time and "normal" again. Getting over emotional things are harder than physical things. I also think that faith plays a part in how we &Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02890796903959709429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-10488585472716173762010-03-28T18:56:37.502-07:002010-03-28T18:56:37.502-07:00Thanks Willard. There are situations in life which...Thanks Willard. There are situations in life which bear thinking about and trying to put into perspective. Some easier than others.<br /><br />You are welcome. I hope the information helps.SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-62313599614650857892010-03-28T18:54:31.458-07:002010-03-28T18:54:31.458-07:00Yu are right TB, some things are easier said than ...Yu are right TB, some things are easier said than done. Life sometimes deals us blows which we cannot understand and have to fight to cope with.SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-40624088587836865522010-03-28T18:52:02.413-07:002010-03-28T18:52:02.413-07:00Oh Tony, I do not know what to say. The tears run ...Oh Tony, I do not know what to say. The tears run down my face and the horror of life wells up in me. People can be so irresponsible and cruel to each other. Do some people not see or care about the hurt they inflict on others so casually? What makes them do it? Is there no love left anymore? Can we ever tuck the thoughts and feelings away so that they do not surface again? Don’t we all have thatSAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6525346399682281797.post-11626229269676190862010-03-28T18:41:15.995-07:002010-03-28T18:41:15.995-07:00Hello Sreddy. Of course I missed you!! :) Thanks, ...Hello Sreddy. Of course I missed you!! :) Thanks, that lily is one which I think the most beautiful flower we have. Some kinds of pain never subside, it only lessens with time.SAPhotographs (Joan)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15993474141491808257noreply@blogger.com